Well, make that three. Long story...
I showed up at the gig tonight and there was equipment already on the stage, so I asked the bartender about it and she called the owner.
He said he had been trying to reach me for days and that when he called it said my phone had been disconnected, so he got his regular Wednesday night go to fill in just in case, but since I was there , I should play..
I set up all my gear, finished the sound check and about 10 minutes before I was about to start, a guy walks in with a guitar can a mandolin.
I told him that the owner said I should play. He was a bit pissed because the Wed night guy called him to play a duet with him & he had just drive 2 hours to be there.
So, I start thinking "This poor guy has a 4 hour round trip. am I gonna send him home?"
SO... I called the owner and told him that if it was ok with him, I'd let the duet have my slot and I'd head home (20 minute drive)
The Wed guy showed up and told me the same story about them trying to reach me. I asked what number did you call. The owner (who has at least tow of my business cards) gave him the wrong number.
Now before you start thinking that I'm 100% altruistic, I DID have in the back of my mind that I have to get up at 6 am to be ready to set up at 7:30 on a parade float in the morning.