That is one reason that I enjoy metronome practice. On a good day when the notes are behaving themselves you can play against the metronome and practice that "almost late to dinner" timing. Sometimes that works, and if you can get it going without "rubberbanding" against the time, it's fun too! Note values are another one, let 'em ring, or clip 'em short, do it deliberately and the metronome is your mirror. Blah, Blah, big metronome fan here. My goals may not be yours though. I'm trying to keep my hands moving, imprint some muscle memory, and spend the time I need to figure out how to get around the fingerboard smoothly. I am not in a rush.you may play a note slightly before or after the notation requires it, you are adding expression to the music.
That's often me if I'm using a metronome. By the time I pull it out, I've worked the counting enough that all I'm listening to the metronome for is to be sure that I'm where I should be when the 1 hits. If I hear that I'm not playing what should be played on the 1, then the metronome gets turned back off and it's back to counting. Course I guess I'm still counting with the metronome going, I'm just using that different click to be sure that my counting is a consistent speed...or pushing my ability to get my speed faster.Some might also put out a different click on the "one".
A metronome will keep you on tempo. But if you jump ahead a beat, or lag a beat, the metronome is not going to tell you. And to nail a pickup note on the "and" of 4, you really need to be counting.
I agree with you on notation, which I tend to prefer. I really don't like music just written in tab. Even if I am using tabs, I always cross reference everything with the music.Counting, and the use of a metronome are very important. Music notation, as opposed to many forms of tablature, will allow you to see what the composer intended. Some forms of music are more complex than others. One example is flamenco, where we have about 50 different forms called “Palos”, related to the branches of a tree. Bulería, alegría and solea as an example use a count of 12, and are in 3/4 time. Accents are used on Beats 12, 3, 6, 8, and 10. They start on Beat 12 by the way, to make it “more interesting”.
Whatever form of music you play, I suggest you do a good bit of listening. It really helps to be familiar with what you are learning to play. Personally, when it comes to the Blues, I have a preference for the Shuffle. I like the “feel”. It really struck home when I heard B. B. King say that “the shuffle is like having a conversation”. Other forms of the Blues can be a bit different. Some forms of the Blues require you to be in a race, to play as many notes and as fast as possible. That is not my cup of tea, but to each his/her own!
Listen to others playing the Blues, and record yourself. Enjoy!
Tom