I have been playing fingerstyle, classical and flamenco for over 65 years. Around 2010, I purchased my first electric, and several books on the subject of electric guitars. The books said things like, use 0.5 mm for rhythm, and 0.7mm for solo playing. So I purchased a few of each. Then I got some 1.0mm, and liked them. Next it was 1.5 mm, and there is no way I am going back to a smaller thickness! I like Dunlop and Clayton.
Enter V Picks! Are you serious? Carlos Santana uses a 2.75mm V pick. Since we attended the same high school in San Francisco (and I enjoy his playing), I thought I would give them a try. 2.75mm? Man that is thick! Well they make picks much thicker.
https://v-picks.com/shop/freakishly-large-round/
It comes in three colors. The first time I tried it I was amazed. You can play fast and accurately. The strings roll off the rounded edges so you do not get a snapping noise which I notice from sharp pointed picks. By the way, different pick edges will change your sound.
There is or was a sale (as of a few days ago) 20% off with the coupon code CRAZZYVINNI. You might try a few different V picks to see what you like best. There is no way you are going to see me play an electric guitar without a V Pick. I am sold on them!
Tom